Thursday, March 15, 2018


Sometimes when you are just SO far behind that you don't even know where to start, a picture of a cat is really the best thing. We are been SO busy, but really in the most wonderful, unstressed way, compared to the other sort of stress we all felt when we were still in real school. I continue to sing the praises of homeschooling to myself and whoever will listen on a daily basis and I simply love how our routine at home has unfolded. I can hardly believe it's the middle of March already! 

This blog has regrettably been more at the back of my mind than truly On My Mind, so it's been easier and easier to let the weeks slip by without checking in. One of these days I'll get my pictures organized, sorted, rotated, and distilled into some appropriate representation of what we do all day. I'm still toying with the idea of a youtube channel as well (Amy REALLY wants to do that). 

I feel like I only pop in here to make promises of posting more, but I hope to make that more of a reality as we continue to refine our routine here. We've been doing lots of work on the house (painting, mostly) but that takes up a lot of my free time. There's been schoolwork and prepping schoolwork and some travel and some family visiting. There's been snow and sun and lots of cats, art projects, building blocks, Minecraft, and everything in between. Lots to cover, not to mention large metaphysical ponderings on education, family life, and parenting. Whew! No wonder I'm scared to even begin. Ah well, someday, and until then, sending you out all lovely spring wishes and hope to be back here soon!

Wednesday, January 31, 2018

After Much Evaluation...

... I've decided to keep my blog exactly where it is. Despite my absence here during the month of January I actually did spend a fair amount of "blogging" time investigating the options that are out there for a self-hosted blog and my own domain name. And for many reasons, including my general lack of tech-aptitude, I got fed up with trying to make the changes necessary to switch over to a "real" blog and have decided to stay with my nice comfortable friend here on Blogspot.

As part of my plans for the New Year, I have been thinking through various ways I might contribute to the household income. I'm not a direct-sales girl. While I would love to make and sell things, in a creative manner, I believe the market is already flooded with all the things I'd be inclined to produce - zippered pouches in cute fabrics, etc. I love making and yet I often feel as though I don't have an original bone in my body, which makes any true art seem unrealistic. And I'm coming to realize I'm not nearly social enough to have any sort of success in the world of social media - things like building a brand through a blog/Instagram/website/Facebook combo. I rarely post to Facebook anymore. Instagram I find lovely, but I don't like oversharing, and this little blog is really the only voice I feel comfortable with putting "out there."

So, while none of this really answers the question of What I Want To Be When I Grow Up, it does mean I have renewed enthusiasm for keeping up my blog here, just as I've been doing for almost nine years. Thanks for sticking with me!

In other news, we are already in our fourth week of homeschooling and it has indeed been wonderful. We get enough "work" done every day to satisfy the wannabe-teacher in me, and the kids and I have been having a ton of fun around the house, simply enjoying each other more and shedding the stress built up by years of doing the school grind. I've got so much I want to say on all of it, but I'll start with what has been one of my most surprising observations, and that is how much better the kids all get along with each other. Amy and William in particular have been on much better terms than they were when they were at school. I might have thought we'd run the risk of all getting on each others' nerves, especially with the amount we have truly been just in the house, but it's quite the opposite. It's been a very pleasant stretch of weeks and I hope they continue in this same direction.

If nothing else, a morning like today makes it all worthwhile: We finished our work, then went outside in the mid-morning to enjoy the brilliant sunshine and clear blue sky, sledding down the awesome hill in our backyard, over and over again, all together.

Friday, January 12, 2018


I simply must close out the year 2017 in a proper fashion. December devolved into a miasma of holiday stress with a heavy twist of viral illness, and I mostly would like to forget the weeks leading up to Christmas. However, we were healthy and happy just in time for the big day and celebrated a lovely quiet Christmas at home, followed shortly thereafter by a nice long stay at my folks'. All the beautiful snow over there plus day after day of brilliant sunshine helped clear my funk of a mood and things have been looking up ever since. 

In very large news, I also would like to share that we just completed our very first week of HOMESCHOOLING! I've been thinking about this for, oh, six years now, at least? And though it felt incredibly awkward to go full stop in the middle of the school year and leave teachers and friends maybe a little bewildered, it feels even more right now that we are doing it. I have tons of thoughts to share, both in our reasons for taking the plunge and on my reflections of the experience this far, but I am going to defer those. My hope for this blog, and my writing "career" is to take it all in a more earnest direction, including moving to a new platform and reassessing my content and ambitions for what I share here. I haven't started any of it yet, or course, but I have big plans. I will let you know where and when I "move" and apologize in advance for what will likely be a quiet period while I figure out this homeschool gig and get my writing/blogging ducks in a row. 

In the meantime, I extend my most sincere thanks for being with me here, and wish you all a very blessed 2018. See you soon! 

Monday, December 18, 2017


December is not my friend. Sorry to miss some days of my promised daily blogging. But I'd like you to meet my new friend! This is Quila! Like Chester, Quila is a rescue from Aruba. Once getting hooked up with the rescue groups on that island I'll admit to becoming a little fixated on their other available rescued animals; the work people are doing their to help the animals is really admirable. This girl's picture just spoke to me and it seemed to fit, we couldn't keep the Aruban puppy but we definitely could find a spot for an Aruban kitten. So here she is! She came home right at the beginning of the month and she's such a sweetie. So far Ollie and Humphrey have not been terribly kind to her but she is SO lovey to people, and especially the kids. Just what we wanted in a pet, since O and H don't really give the kids the time of day. Quila has been camped out in Amy's room which both parties love - now Amy has a snuggle buddy at night and Quila obliges so sweetly. We sure love our kitties here and are happy to have a new addition! 

Tuesday, December 12, 2017


Pardon the hiatus. December 12th? Really? We've all had a terrible chest cold here with Matthew especially hard hit and it's been several nights (and days) of not ever getting to actually put him down. Better now. Back to Novemeber we go. 

Very shortly after M's birthday came Thanksgivng. This year we stayed put; my parents came to us and stayed over for a few days. So nice! All simple and easy and pleasant. Great weather, sunny and cold. The menfolk did tons of raking and yard work, I made dinner with some good helpers: 

I took pitifully few pictures the whole weekend. But Mom did make sure we got a big group selfie: 

Another treat was getting the chance to go shopping with just my mom and my girls on Friday. All we did was cruise slowly through AC Moore and it was so enjoyable. 

That's about it for TG. Here's a few more random pictures of my boys to finish off November, no explanations needed:.

Friday, December 8, 2017


Skip ahead just two short weeks from Amy's birthday and we get to Matthew's birthday. My little guy turned 2!! Incidentally, even though each of my kids was born on a different day of the week, all four of those dates line up so that in a given calendar year every kid's birthday falls on the same day of the week. So everybody got a Monday birthday this year. Anyway, M turning two felt like a big deal to me, because for four straight years I've had a child under age 2. C and M are my closest kids in age and having them just less than 2 years apart has been, well, pretty intense. But tons and tons of joy, wouldn't change it for the world. 

The day before his birthday he found these in his big brother's drawer and wore them, without a shirt, allll day. He said, in this pose, that he was "Fuperman!"

My not-so-little littles. 

Again with the lack of clothes... We found this little basketball hoop at the grocery store. This little guy has a thing for basketballs. He also got a big one for his birthday. 

He had lots of helpers waiting to open his presents for him. I mean, help. M was very thoughtful and gracious about his gifts, it was very mature and sweet. 

And, a cake. 

He is such a dear, dear little boy. He gets compliments everywhere we go because he's so small and yet such a classically cute little guy with his blonde hair and blue eyes. He can keep up with kids twice his age and loves the action of his big siblings and their friends and classmates. He's a shy guy too though, just like all my others have been. I just love him to pieces. 

Thursday, December 7, 2017


Moving right along. On the 6th of November this girl turned TEN. I had to double check to make sure I was counting right. Ten. Really? She is something else. She is a bossy one, but a bossy one with a strategic vision of How It All Should Go - be it putting on a play with friends or directing art time with her sister or any of it. She's in charge. She is an amazing student, overachieving in fifth grade. She's a quiet and reserved one at school though. Likes her classmates and teacher and routine but has lots of grumbles about school in general. She is very adamant that she WILL be homeschooling come middle school. Frankly I'd love that, and she's my partner in crime as I (endlessly) contemplate homeschooling as an option for all the kids. 

Amy's birthday-day was a Monday and a busy one, but we made time for presents and cake at the end of it. 

The following weekend she got her birthday wish of having her best friend and neighbor sleep over. That was great fun for all. 

I found this gem of a picture on my old phone, this was part of the musical Amy wrote and directed with her siblings and friend on the sleepover night. 

She's quite something, that's all I can say :) and I love her so.